Embarking on a journey of love and commitment, Ashleigh and Rob eagerly anticipate celebrating their engagement and wedding in the magical year of 2026.
Join us on this exclusive adventure as we unveil all things Finley/Mendez-related over the next 24 months.
2019: Rob walked up to my table to say hello to my roommate. He had a henna of "Angel" tattooed to his forehead. Great first impression.
Ashleigh and Robert first crossed paths in class their freshman year at Lees McRae. They did not interact directly, but circled around each other in the same friend group. During the second semester, they officially met when Rob walked up to Ashleigh's table to say hello to her friend. Ashleigh pointed out the awkward looking drawing on the side of Rob's forehead, to which he replied he received the henna the night before at a party after he had passed out. Ashleigh was not impressed.
2020: Rob reaches out to Ashleigh during the summer break.
Both Rob and Ashleigh has recently ended relationships and were finding comfort in getting to know one another. They had established a friendship through their mutual group of friends and gravitated towards each other. Ashleigh made a decision to transfer to UNCW for her junior year, and Rob closed the distant by coming to visit Ashleigh in Wilmington. It was this grand jester that won Ashleigh's heart.
Ashleigh transferred back to LMC the second semester of her junior year. And from there, Rob and Ashleigh were inseparable. Rob graduated a year before Ashleigh, as her jaunt to Wilmington cost her a whole extra year of college. Even after having graduated, Rob made regular trips to Banner Elk during Ashleigh's last year, keeping their relationship alive and healthy.
2024: After 4 extremely happy years, Rob proposes.
After both graduated from LMC, Rob went on to enroll in his masters program, while Ashleigh established her teaching career. Rob took Ashleigh's grandmother's 13 diamond bridged ring and had it melted down and reconstructed into a beautiful band of 12 diamonds to hold the illustrious center diamond of her engagement ring, saving the last diamond for the wedding band.
To say Ashleigh was blown away in an understatement. Somehow this boy made this girl's dream come true.
Getting Married in September 2026
The Venue
A beautiful historical estate in Banner Elk with stunning views of the mountains
The Attire
Classic elegance with a touch of modern style
The Menu
A fusion of Ashleigh and Rob's favorite foods and cuisines